Friday, August 21, 2015

Coming Home



Coming Home

But when the time arrived that was set by God the Father, God sent his Son, born among us of a woman, born under the conditions of the law so that he might redeem those of us who have been kidnapped by the law. Thus we have been set free to experience our rightful heritage. You can tell for sure that you are now fully adopted as his own children because God sent the Spirit of his Son into our lives crying out, “Papa! Father!” Doesn’t that privilege of intimate conversation with God make it plain that you are not a slave, but a child? And if you are a child, you’re also an heir, with complete access to the inheritance. (Gal. 4:4-7)

Search the faces of the local Haitian children’s home for a little girl named Angelique. Study the fifty-seven dark-skinned, bright-eyed, curly-haired, Creole-speaking, fun-loving children for a unique seven-year-old girl. At first glance, she doesn’t look much different than the others – she eats the same rice and beans; plays on the same grassless playground. She sleeps beneath a tin roof, like all the other girls, and hears the nearly nightly pounding of the tropical rain. However, although she may appear to be the same, don't be fooled. She lives in a different world – a world called, “Coming Home.”

See the slender girl wearing the pink shirt? The girl with the prominent cheekbones, bushy hair and a handful of photos? Ask to see the pictures, and Angelique will let you. Fail to ask her, however, and she’ll show you the snapshots anyway. The photos bear the images of her future family. She's been adopted, and the pictures remind her of her coming home. Within a month, maybe two at the most, she'll be there. She knows the day is coming, and every opening of the gate jump-starts her heart. Any day now her father will appear. He promised he'd be back. He came once to claim her, and he'll come again to carry her home. Until then she lives with a heart waiting for her homecoming. Shouldn't we all?

Our Father paid us a visit, too. Haven’t we been claimed? Adopted? "So you should not be like cowering, fearful slaves. You should behave instead like God's very own children, adopted into his family – calling him 'Father, dear Father.'" (Rom. 8:15) God searched you out. Before you knew you were orphaned by sin, he'd already filed the paperwork and selected the wallpaper for your room. "For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn, with many brothers and sisters." (Rom. 8:29) Abandon you to a fatherless world? No way. Not a chance. Those privy to God's family Bible can read your name because he wrote it there. What's more, he covered the adoption fees. Neither you nor Angelique can pay your way out of the orphanage, so “God sent his Son, born among us of a woman, born under the conditions of the law so that he might redeem those of us who have been kidnapped by the law. Thus we have been set free to experience our rightful heritage.” (Gal. 4:5) In other words, we don't finance our adoption. But we do have to accept it.

Granted, Angelique could tell her prospective parents to get lost. But she hasn't. And in the same way, you could tell God to get lost, too. But you wouldn't, would you? The moment we accept his offer we go from orphans to heirs – “Heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ." (Rom. 8:17) Heirs. Heaven knows no stepchildren or grandchildren. Just children. You and Christ share the same Will. What he inherits, you inherit. You’re headed home. But sometimes we forget that fact.

We grow a little too accustomed to the hard bunks and tin plates of the orphanage. Seldom do we peer over the fence into the world to come. And how long has it been since you showed someone your pictures? Is Peter talking to you when he urges, "Friends, this world is not your home, so don't make yourselves cozy in it"? (1 Pet. 2:11) We’ve been adopted, we just haven’t been transported yet. We have a new family, but not our heavenly house. We know our Father's name, but we haven't seen his face. He’s claimed us, but has not yet to come for us.

So here we are. Caught between what is and what will be. No longer orphans, but not home yet, either. So, what do we do in the meantime? And, frankly, sometimes it’s just that – a mean time. Time made mean with chemotherapy, drivers driving with more beer than brains in their bodies, and backstabbers who make life on earth feel like a time-share in Afghanistan. So, how do we live in the meantime? How do we keep our hearts headed home? Paul weighs in with this suggestion: “And even we Christians, although we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, also groan to be released from pain and suffering. We, too, wait anxiously for that day when God will give us our full rights as his children, including the new bodies he has promised us. Now that we are saved, we eagerly look forward to this freedom. For if you already have something, you don't need to hope for it. But if we look forward to something we don't have yet, we must wait patiently and confidently.” (Rom. 8:23-25)

Interesting that Paul calls the Holy Spirit a “foretaste” – “We have the Holy Spirit . . . as a foretaste of future glory." (v. 23) No person with a healthy appetite needs a definition for that word. I’ve had a few foretastes, haven’t you? For instance, not long ago, I was in the kitchen sniffing around the dinner trimmings – just like my big, yellow Labrador, True, sniffs around the kitchen island for a treat. And then when my wife wasn’t looking, I snatched a foretaste – a morsel of meatloaf, or a corner of the cornbread. Pre-dinner snacks stir our appetites for the table, right? Well, samplings from heaven's kitchen do the same.

There are moments, perhaps too few, when time evaporates and heaven hands you an hors d'oeuvre. For instance, your newborn has just passed from restlessness to rest. Beneath the amber light of a midnight moon, you trace a soft finger across tiny, sleeping eyes and wonder, “God gave you to me?” A pre-libation from heaven's winery. Or, you're lost in the work you love to do; were just made to do. And as you step back from the moist canvas, or hoed garden, or rebuilt V-eight engine, satisfaction flows within you like a long drink of cool water, and the angel asks, "Another aperitif?" Or maybe the lyrics to the hymn say what you couldn't but wanted to. And for a moment, a splendid moment, there are no wars, no wounds, or tax returns. Just you, God, and a silent assurance that everything is right with the world. Rather than dismiss or disregard such moments as good luck, or coincidence, relish them instead. They can attune you to heaven. The tough ones can, too.

"[We] also groan to be released from pain and suffering. We, too, wait anxiously for that day when God will give us our full rights as his children, including the new bodies he has promised us." (v. 23) Do you think Angelique groans? Orphans tend to do that because they live lonely lives. Seeing a child with a mother and father, they groan. They see a house and think of their bunk. They groan. When they wonder what happened to their biological parents, wouldn't they groan? Of course they would.

But Angelique's groans are numbered. Every cafeteria meal brings her closer to home cooking, and each dormitory night carries her closer to a room of her own. And every time she longs to call someone mama, she remembers that she soon will. Her struggles stir longings for home. So, let your bursitis-plagued body remind you of your eternal one; let acid-inducing days prompt thoughts of unending peace. Are you falsely accused? Acquainted with abuse? Mudslinging is a part of this life, but not the next. And rather than begrudging life's troubles, listen to them. Certain moments are so hideous, nothing else will do.

In 1992, a Time magazine essay entitled Corridors of Agony escorted readers into the ugly world of abused children. There, we met Antwan, age ten, puppet-stringed to neighborhood bullies and drug peddlers. They demanded his presence; he feared their punishment. When police appeared, the troublemakers stashed their drugs in his socks, thinking the boy wouldn't be searched. Tragically, Antwan knew the police better than he knew his teachers. What hope does a boy like Antwan have?

The writer then took us to his sparse apartment. His mother, Syrita, owned one light bulb. When she left the kitchen, she carried the lone bulb to the living room. As she screwed it into the lamp, the dim glow illuminated a poster on a far wall of a young black boy crying. The caption above read, "He will wipe away all tears from their eyes, and there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying, nor pain. All of that has gone forever." (Rev. 21:4)

Write checks of hope on that promise. Do not bemoan time passing; applaud it. The more you drink from God's well, the more you urge the clock to tick. Every bump of the second hand brings you closer to a completed adoption. As Paul writes, "We, too, wait anxiously for that day when God will give us our full rights as his children." (Rom. 8:23)

There was a time, long ago, when my kids celebrated my arrival home. They’d hear the car and scamper to the window, pressing noses and hands against the windowpane next to the front door. And as I pulled into the drive, I could see them jumping inside the house. You'd think someone had switched their M&M's for coffee beans. No returning Caesar ever felt more welcomed. And as I opened the door, they tackled my knees and flooded the entryway with a tsunami-sized joy. Their dad was home.

It's been too long since I searched for God that way. Too seldom do I hear the thunder and think, “Is that God?” I've let days pass without even so much as a glance to the eastern sky. Let's do better. "Let heaven fill your thoughts. Do not think only about things down here on earth." (Col. 3:2) How about regular ladle dips into the well of God's return? Don't you know Angelique's coming home dominates her thoughts? The pictures – can she see them and not think of it? Blessings and burdens. Both can alarm-clock us out of a slumber. Gifts stir homeward longings. So do struggles. Every homeless day carries us closer to the day our Father will come to take us home.

Coming home. What a homecoming that will be.

Grace,

Randy

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