Tuesday, July 1, 2025

The Prescription for Anxiety

 

The Prescription for Anxiety

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I will say, rejoice! (Phil. 4:4)

If anyone ever had a reason to be anxious, it would have been Paul. He’s about sixty years old, thirty years a Christian, and there’s hardly a seaport on the Mediterranean that he doesn't know or hasn’t seen. His back is all angles and curves due to the miles he’s traveled and the beatings he’s suffered. He received thirty-nine lashes on five different occasions. He was beaten with rods on three others. Scars spider web across his skin like bulging veins. He was once left for dead. He has been imprisoned, deserted by friends and co-workers, and has endured shipwrecks, storms and starvation. He's likely half-blind, squinting just to read. (Gal. 4:15) What's more, he’s awaiting trial before the Roman emperor, Nero, who has learned to curry favor with his Roman citizens by killing believers, of which Paul is its poster child. And as if the oppression from the empire weren't enough, Paul also bears the weight of newborn churches whose members are bickering and whose false teachers are preaching out of pride and envy. (Phil. 1:15-17) His future was as gloomy as his jail cell.

Yet to read his words, you'd think he'd just arrived at Sandals in Jamaica. His letter to the Philippians bears not one word of fear or complaint. He never shakes a fist at God. Instead, he lifts his thanks to God and calls on his readers to do the same. "Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I will say, rejoice!" (Phil. 4:4) Paul's prescription for anxiety begins with a call to rejoice, and Paul used every tool in the box on this particular verse to get our attention. First, he employed a present imperative tense so that his readers would have understood him to say to “continually, habitually rejoice!” And if the verb tense wasn’t enough, he removed the expiration date: "Rejoice in the Lord always." And if the verb tense and the word always were both inadequate, he repeated the command: "Again I will say, rejoice!"

But how can a person really obey that command? To rejoice . . . always? Is it possible for any person to maintain an uninterrupted spirit of gladness? No, but that’s not Paul's challenge here. We’re urged to "Rejoice in the Lord." This verse is a call; not to a feeling, but to a decision. A deeply rooted confidence that God exists, that he’s in control and that he is good. The apostle held firm to this belief. Let Nero rage. Let preachers self-promote. Let storms blow. As a tent maker himself, Paul's tent of faith would never collapse because he’d stabilized it with a sturdy belief system. So, how sturdy is your own?

Flip back the flaps of your soul and you'll see a series of beliefs that serve like poles to stabilize your tent – your life. Your belief system is your answer to the fundamental questions of life: Is anyone in control of the universe? Does life have a purpose? Do I have value? Is this life all there is? Your belief system has nothing to do with your skin color, appearance, talents or your age. Your belief system is not concerned with the exterior of the tent, but with its interior. It is these set of convictions – all of them unseen – upon which your faith depends. (Heb. 11:1) If your belief system is strong, you’ll stand. If it’s weak, the storms will prevail. Belief always precedes behavior. That’s why the apostle Paul, in each of his epistles, addressed convictions before he ever addressed actions. To change the way a person responds to life, you must first change what a person believes about life. The most important thing about you is your belief system.

Paul's belief system was Gibraltar-strong. Take a close look at the poles in the tent of the apostle Paul and you will see one with this inscription: the sovereignty of God. Sovereignty is the term the Bible uses to describe God's perfect control and management of the universe. He preserves and governs every element. He’s continually involved with all created things, directing them to act in a way that fulfills his divine purpose. In the treatment of anxiety, a proper understanding of God’s sovereignty is absolutely essential. Anxiety is often the consequence of perceived chaos. If we sense that we’re victims of unseen, turbulent, random forces, we worry and get anxious.

Psychologists verified this fact when they studied the impact of combat on soldiers in World War II. They determined that after sixty days of continuous combat, ground troops became "emotionally dead." That’s understandable since soldiers endured the constant threat of bombs, machine guns and enemy snipers. The anxiety of ground troops in the study was no surprise. But the comparative calm of fighter pilots? That came as a shock to the researchers since the pilot’s mortality rate was among the highest in combat – 50% of them were killed in action. Yet, fliers loved their work. An amazing 93% of them claimed to be happy in their assignments, even though the odds of survival were the same as a coin toss. So, what made the difference? Simply stated, the pilots had their hands on the stick. They sat in the cockpit. They felt that their fate was theirs to determine. Infantrymen, by contrast, could just as easily be killed standing still or even running away; they felt forlorn and helpless. A formula was thus confirmed: perceived control creates calm; a lack of control gives rise to fear and anxiety.

But you don't need a world war to prove that formula. Gridlock will do the trick. A team of German researchers found that a traffic jam triples your chances of a heart attack. It makes sense, I suppose, since gridlock is the ultimate loss of control. We may know how to drive, but the guy in the next lane certainly doesn't. We could be a NASCAR champion, but the texting teenager could very well be the end of us. There’s no predictability, just stress. Anxiety increases as perceived control diminishes. So, what do we do? Control everything? Never board a plane without a parachute? Never enter a restaurant without bringing your own silverware? Never leave the house without a gas mask? Never give away your heart for fear of a broken one? Never step on a crack lest you break your mother's back? Face anxiety by taking control? If only we could.

The problem is that certainty, or control, is a cruel impostor. A person can accumulate a fortune and still lose it in a recession. A health fanatic may have an exclusive diet of fruits and nuts and still battle cancer. A hermit can avoid human contact altogether and still struggle with insomnia. We want certainty, but the only certainty we have is that certainty isn’t certain. That's why the most stressed-out people in the world are control freaks. They fail at the very thing they pursue the most. The more they try to control the world, the more they realize they can’t. Life becomes a cycle of anxiety, failure; anxiety, failure. We can't take control because control is not ours to take. The Bible has a better idea.

Rather than seeking total control, relinquish it. You can't run the world, but you can entrust it to the God who does. This is the message behind Paul's admonition to "rejoice in the Lord." Peace is within reach, not for a lack of problems, but because of the presence of a sovereign Lord. To read Paul is to read the words of a man who, in the innermost part of his being, believed in the steady hand of a good God.

Suppose your dad’s the world's foremost orthopedic surgeon. People travel from all over the world to see him. He routinely exchanges damaged joints for healthy ones. With the same confidence that a mechanic changes a spark plug, your dad removes and replaces hips, knees and shoulders. At ten years of age, you’re a bit young to comprehend the accomplishments of a renowned surgeon, but you're not too young to stumble down the stairs and twist your ankle. You roll and writhe on the floor and scream for help. You’re weeks away from your first school dance and this is no time for crutches. You need a healthy ankle, and yours is anything but. Then into the room walks your dad, still wearing his surgical scrubs. He removes your shoe, peels back your sock and examines the injury. You groan at the sight of the tennis ball-sized bump. Adolescent anxiety kicks in. "Dad, I'll never walk again!" "Yes, you will." "No one can help me!" "I can." "No one knows what to do!" "I do." "No, you don't!" Your dad lifts his head and asks you a question. "Do you know what I do for a living?" Actually, you don't.

You know he goes to the hospital every day. You know that people call him "doctor." Your mom thinks he’s pretty smart, but you really don't know what your father does. "So," he says as he places a bag of ice on your ankle, "it's time for you to learn." The next day he’s waiting for you in the school parking lot after class. "Hop in. I want you to see what I do," he says. He drives you to his hospital office and shows you the constellation of diplomas on his wall. Adjacent to them is a collection of awards that include words like distinguished and honorable. He hands you a manual on orthopedic surgery that bears his name. "You wrote this?" "I did," he says. His cell phone rings. After the call he announces, "We're off to surgery." You scrub up and follow him into the operating room on your crutches. During the next few minutes, you have a ringside seat for a procedure in which he reconstructs an ankle. He’s the commander of the operating room. He never hesitates or seeks advice. Like Nike, he just does it. One of the nurses whispers, "Your dad’s the best." As the two of you ride home that evening, you look at your father. You see him in a different light. If he can perform orthopedic surgery, he can likely treat a swollen ankle. So, you ask, "You think I'll be okay for the dance?" "Yes, you'll be fine, son." And this time you believe him. Your anxiety decreases as your understanding of your father increases.

Our biggest fears are sprained ankles to God, and a lot of people live with unnecessary anxiety over temporary limps. The next time you fear the future, rejoice in the Lord's sovereignty. Rejoice in what he has accomplished. Rejoice that he is able to do what you cannot. Fill your mind with thoughts of God. "[He is] the Creator, who is blessed forever." (Rom. 1:25) "[He] is the same yesterday, today, and forever." (Heb. 13:8) "[His] years will never end." (Ps. 102:27) He is king, supreme ruler, absolute monarch, and overlord of all history. An arch of his eyebrow and a million angels will pivot and salute. Every throne is a footstool to his. Every crown is papier-mâché next to his. He consults no advisers. He needs no congress. He reports to no one. He’s in charge, and we can rejoice in his Sovereignty.

Sovereignty gives the saint the prescription for peace. Because while others see the problems of the world and wring their hands in anxiety, we see the problems of the world and bend our knees.

Grace,

Randy

Thursday, June 26, 2025

God Fights for You

 

God Fights for You

God Fights for You - Audio/Visual 

For the Lord has driven out great and powerful nations for you, and no one has yet been able to defeat you. Each one of you will put to flight a thousand of the enemy, for the Lord your God fights for you, just as he has promised. So be very careful to love the Lord your God. (Joshua 23:9-11)

Nadin Khoury was thirteen years old, five foot two, and weighed maybe a hundred pounds soaking wet. His attackers were teenagers, much larger than Nadin, and outnumbered him seven to one. For thirty minutes they hit, kicked and beat him. He didn’t stand a chance. Nadin’s mom had recently moved the family to Philadelphia from Minnesota. She’d lost her job as a hotel maid and was looking for work. In 2000, she'd escaped war-torn Liberia. As a result, Nadin Khoury was the new kid in a rough neighborhood with a mom who was an unemployed immigrant – everything a wolf pack of bullies needed to justify an attack.

The hazing began weeks earlier. They picked on him; they called his mother names. They routinely pushed, shoved and ambushed him. Then came the all-out assault on a January day. They dragged him through the snow, stuffed him into a tree and then suspended him on a seven-foot wrought-iron fence. Nadin survived the attack and would have likely faced a few more except for the foolishness of one of the bullies. He filmed the pile-on and then posted it to YouTube. A passerby saw the violence and chased the attackers away. Police saw the video and got involved, and the troublemakers eventually landed in jail, and the story went viral.

A staffer at the nationwide morning show, The View, read the account and invited Nadin to appear on the broadcast. He did. As the video of the assault played on the screen behind him, he tried to appear brave, but his lower lip was quivering. "Next time maybe it could be somebody smaller than me," he said. Unbeknownst to him, however, the producer had invited some other Philadelphians to appear on the show as well. And just as the YouTube video ended, the curtain opened and three gigantic men walked out, all members of the Philadelphia Eagles football team. Nadin, a rabid fan, turned and smiled. One of the athletes was All-Pro receiver DeSean Jackson, who’s now retired. Jackson took a seat on the couch, as close to the boy as possible, and promised him, "Anytime you need us, I got two linemen right here." Nadin’s eyes widened like saucers as Jackson signed a football jersey and handed it to him. Then, in full view of every bully in America, DeSean gave the boy his cell phone number. From that day forward Nadin has been only a call away from his personal bodyguards. Thugs think twice before they harass the kid who has an NFL football player's number on speed dial. Pretty good offer. Who wouldn't want that type of protection? Joshua did.

Brutal and bloodthirsty enemies occupied the Promised Land. Joshua's men were untested. His leadership was unproven. Yet in spite of the odds, God guaranteed the conquest. "No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life; as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you nor forsake you." (Josh. 1:5) It was as if God told him, "Jericho has its thick, tall walls, but you have me. The Amorites have home-field advantage, but you have the King of heaven on your side. The enemies have more chariots, experience and artillery, but I am stronger still. And I will not leave you or forsake you." And God gives you the same promise. In fact, the writer of Hebrews quoted the words in his epistle: "For [God] has said, 'I will never leave you or forsake you.' So, we can say with confidence, 'The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can anyone do to me?'" (Heb. 13:5-6)

That last question is a troubling one, however. What can anyone do to me? Because you know the answers. "Lie to me," "Injure me," "Bully me." But the Scripture asks a different question. If the Lord is your helper, what can anyone do to you? The Greek word for "helper" in this passage is boetheia, from boé, which means "a shout," and théō, which means "to run." When you need help, God runs with a shout, "I'm coming!" He never leaves you. Ever. He never takes a break, takes a nap or takes time off. He never leaves your side. Lost your job? That’s hard, but God’s your helper. Is your red blood cell count low? Difficult for sure, but the one who made you is with you. A world rife with conflict? Yes it is but, still, the Almighty will never leave you or forsake you. Consequently, everything changes. Since God is strong, you can be strong. Since he is able, you’ll be able. Since he has no limits, you have no limits. With the apostle you can boldly say, "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?" (Heb. 13:6) But there’s more.

The biggest – and best – news of Joshua is this: God not only stays with you, but he fights for you. Not only does God desire that you live your best life, but he fights for you so that you can. This was the main point of Joshua's victory speech. Envision the commander as he stands before his army to deliver one of his final messages. "I am old," he begins, "advanced in age . . . [T]his day I am going the way of all the earth." (Josh. 23:2, 14) He was 110 years old when he died (24:29), so he must have been nearly that age when he gave this speech. He has a rush of white hair and a chest-length beard. His back is stooped, but his voice is strong. He stands on a rock and looks out over a valley full of faces. When he lifts his hand to speak, their voices fall silent. He’d led them out of the wilderness, through the Jordan River, and into Canaan. When Joshua spoke, they listened. Joshua has seen every significant moment of the last half century. "You have seen all that the Lord your God has done," he announces to his soldiers. (23:3) The Jordan River opened, and the Jericho walls fell. The sun stood still, and the enemies scattered. The Hebrews inhabited farms they did not plow and ate from vineyards they did not plant. And Joshua, in his final words, wants to make sure they’ve received the message: "The Lord your God is he who has fought for you." (v. 3)

The Hebrews took the land not because of their skill, but God's. Throughout the book of Joshua, God does the fighting. In his call to battle Joshua told his men, "Go in to possess the land which the Lord your God is giving you to possess." (Josh. 1:11) Then again, "The Lord your God is giving you rest and is giving you this land." (v:13) On the eve of the Jordan crossing, Joshua declared, "The Lord will do wonders among you." (3:5) As they stood on the western side of the river, Joshua deduced, "The Lord your God dried up the waters of the Jordan." (4:23) On the outskirts of Jericho "Joshua said to the people: 'Shout, for the Lord has given you the city!'" (6:16) The entire narrative reads like this: God claiming; God giving; God defending. Joshua summarized the victory by saying, "For the Lord has driven out from before you great and strong nations; but as for you, no one has been able to stand against you to this day. One man of you shall chase a thousand, for the Lord your God is he who fights for you, as he promised you." (23:9-10)

Don't you love that image? One man of you shall chase a thousand. I envision a single Hebrew soldier with drawn sword racing after an entire battalion of enemies. He’s outnumbered a thousand to one, but since God fights for him they scatter like scared seagulls. So, picture the same. The Amorites of your life – fears, dread, hatred and hurt – come at you like a legion of hoodlums. Yet rather than run away, you turn and face them. You unsheathe the promise of God's Word and defy the enemies of God's cause. You’re a lion and they’re the rats. "Get out of here, shame. Goodbye, guilt. Fear of death, regrets of the past – take your puny attacks somewhere else." You weren’t made to quake in fear. You weren’t made to be beholden to your past. You weren’t made to limp through life like a wimp. You are a living, breathing expression of God. What's more, God fights for you.

Is that a new thought? You've heard about the God who made you, watches you, directs you and knows you . . . but the God who fights for you? Who blazes the trail ahead of you? Who defends you? Who collapses walls, stills the sun and rains hail on the devil and all his forces? Did you know that God is fighting for you? That "with us is the Lord our God, to help us and to fight our battles"? (2 Chron. 32:8) That "our God will fight for us"? (Neh. 4:20) That the Lord will "fight against those who fight against [you]"? (Ps. 35:1) God fights for you. Let those four words sink in for just a moment.

God. The CEO, President, King, Supreme Ruler, Absolute Monarch, Czar, Emperor, and Raja of all history. He runs interference and provides cover. He is impeccably perfect, tirelessly strong and unquestionably capable. He is endlessly joyful, wise and willing. And he fights for you. He deploys angels and commands weather. He stands down Goliaths and vacates cemeteries. He fights – for your health, for your family, for your faith, and for your restoration. Are the odds against you? Is the teacher against you? Is your boss against you? Difficult to be sure, but God fights for You. Yes, you. You with the sordid past. You with the receding hairline. You with the absentee dad. You with the bad back, bad credit or bad job. He fights not just for the rich, pretty or religious. He fights for the you’s of the world. And aren’t you a you?

The big news of the Bible is not that you fight for God, but that God fights for you. And to know this – to know that your Father fights for you – is an unparalleled source of empowerment. You'd love for someone to rush to your defense, to stand up on your behalf. Well, God has. And God does. When God became flesh, he fought for your soul. When Jesus faced the devil in the wilderness, he fought for your peace. When he stood up for the neglected, was he not standing up for you? When he died on the cross for your sins, he fought for your salvation. When he left the Holy Spirit to guide, strengthen and comfort you, he was fighting for your life. Miss this truth and you might as well plant a mailbox in the wilderness because you’ll be there for an exceptionally long time. But believe this truth and watch the clouds begin to clear. Believe this: “[God] won't let you stumble; your Guardian God won't fall asleep. Not on your life! Israel's Guardian will never doze or sleep. God’s your guardian, right at your side to protect you – shielding you from sunstroke, sheltering you from moon stroke. God guards you from every evil, he guards your very life. He guards you when you leave and when you return, he guards you now, he guards you always.” (Ps. 121:3-8 – MSG)

Toward the end of the invasion, the narrator of Joshua's story itemizes all the kings that the people of Israel had defeated. He does so in an interesting way. “The king of Jericho – one. The king of Ai – one. The king of Jerusalem – one. The king of Hebron – one.” (Josh. 12:9-10) The list goes on for thirty-one lines. Each line has a name and the word one. It's as if the victors were placing a check mark on their list of enemies and announcing the score: Joshua – 31 vs. Canaanites – 0. Imagine your list. Envision the day you stand before Jesus, your Jeshua, and look back over your life. "God will give to each one whatever praise is due." (1 Cor. 4:5) And your Commander will declare: "With my help, John Doe took on the enemies of his inheritance and drove them out. Greed - one! Explosive temper – one! Envy – one! Abused as a child yet stable as an adult. Tempted with drugs yet sober and steady. Strayed off course yet returned with vigor. One! One! One!"

One by one the conquests will be read and celebrated. Every witness will rejoice at the work God did. This is God's goal for you, and this is your future: more victory than defeat, more joy than sadness, more hope than despair. These can be your best days because God fights for you – always.

Grace,

Randy