Problems
When a believing person prays,
great things happen. (James
5:16)
Imagine yourself in a dark room with the windows
closed, the curtains drawn and the blinds blocked. It’s hard to believe in the
darkness that there’s daylight outside those drapes. So you grope around,
trying to feel your way across the floor. You take a step – disoriented and
unsure of where you’re headed. Progress is slow and the journey’s painful: stubbed
toes and bruised shins. It’s hard to walk around in a dark place. It’s harder
still to walk around in a dark world. But we try, don’t we? And we get wounded
in the process – tripping over problems, bumping into each other in the
shadows, and ramming into walls.
But occasionally one of us makes a discovery.
Reaching through the blackness, a hand finds the curtains and then the window
latch. “Hey, the walls have windows!” And then the drapes are pulled back, the
window’s opened and sunlight floods the room. What was dark is now bright. What
was opaque is now clear. What was stale is now fresh. With the light comes a
peace, a power, a desire to move closer to the light, and a confidence to step
forward. Our timid steps are replaced by a certainty to our walk; a certainty in
moving through the corridors of life, opening one window after another to
illuminate the darkness. What a difference. And all it took was opening the curtains
and raising the window.
Prayer does the same thing. Prayer is the
window that God has placed in the walls of our world. If we leave it shut, the
world becomes a cold, dark place. But throw back the curtains and we see His
light. Open the window and we hear His voice. Open the window of prayer and we invoke
the presence of God in our world. Here’s what I mean.
Imagine that you’re at your best friend’s
wedding reception. The two of you have talked about this day since you were
kids, and now it’s finally here. The ceremony was great, and the wedding was
beautiful; the minister was flawless and the vows were honest. Wow, what a day!
“I’ll take care of the reception,” you had volunteered long ago. So, you
planned the best party possible. You hired the band, rented the hall, catered
the meal, decorated the room, and asked Aunt Tessie to bake the cake. (Yes, I
had an Aunt Tessie)
Now the band is playing and the guests are
milling about, but Aunt Tessie’s nowhere to be seen. Everything’s here but the
cake. So, you ring her up. She’s been napping. She thought the wedding was next
week. Great. Now what do you do? Talk about a problem. Everything’s here but
the cake. Sound familiar?
Well, it might. It’s exactly the dilemma that
Jesus’ mother, Mary, was facing – sort of. The wedding was moving, the guests
were celebrating, but the wine was gone. Back then, wine was to a wedding like cake
is to one today. Can you imagine a wedding without cake? Well, they couldn’t
imagine a wedding without wine. To offer wine was to show respect to your
guests. Not to offer wine at a wedding was … well … an insult.
Mary faced a social problem. You know. A
foul-up; a snafu; a calamity on a somewhat common scale. No need to call 911,
but you can’t sweep the embarrassment under the rug, either. And when you think
about it, most of the problems we face are similar in scope. Seldom do we have
to deal with dilemmas of a national scale, or which have world import. Seldom
do our crises rock the Richter scale. Usually, the waves we ride are made by
pebbles, not oceans. We’re late for a meeting; we leave something at the office;
a co-worker forgets a report; mail gets lost; traffic gets snarled. Generally
speaking, the waves rocking our lives are not life-threatening. But then again they
can be because a poor response to a simple problem can light a fuse. What
begins as a snowflake can snowball into an avalanche unless proper care is
taken.
For that reason please note then how Mary
reacted to the situation. Her solution is a practical plan for untangling
life’s knots. “They have no more wine,” she told Jesus. (John 2:3) That’s it.
That’s all she said. She didn’t go ballistic. She simply assessed the problem
and gave it to Christ. Charles Kettering, the famed inventor and
head of
research for GM said, “A problem well-stated is half-solved.” Mary would have liked that, because
that’s what she did – she defined the problem.
Now, granted, she could have exploded: “Why
didn’t you plan better? There’s not enough wine! Whose fault is this anyway?
You guys never do anything right. If anything is to be done right around here I
have to do it myself!” Or she could have imploded: “This is my fault, I failed.
I’m to blame. I deserve it. If only I’d majored in the culinary arts. I’m a
failure in life.”
It’s so easy to focus on everything but the solution
isn’t it? But Mary didn’t do that. She simply looked at the knot, assessed it,
and took it to the right person. “I’ve got one here I can’t untie, Jesus.” “When all the wine was gone Jesus’ mother
said to him, ‘They have no more wine’.” Please note that she took the
problem to Jesus before she took it to anyone else. An acquaintance of mine told
me about a tense deacons’ meeting he once attended. Apparently, there was more
agitation than agreement, and after a lengthy discussion someone suggested,
“Why don’t we pray about it?” to which another questioned, “Has it come to
that?” Really?
But what causes us to think of prayer as the
last option rather than the first? I think there’s at least two reasons:
feelings of independence and feelings of insignificance.
Sometimes we’re independent. We begin to think
we’re big enough to solve our own problems. For instance, at our house we’ve had
a banner year. Our youngest daughter is just finishing up her first year of
high school; another daughter just changed jobs resulting in more pay and
benefits; and another is getting married in October; our youngest son and his
wife are doing well in the entertainment industry; another son is to the HVAC
industry what MacGyver was to tinker toys; and another son’s an attorney. My
wife and I have applauded and celebrated each accomplishment our children have
made. Their maturity and mobility is good and necessary, but I hope they never
get to the point where they’re too grown up to call their mom and dad. I think God
feels the same way about us.
Other times we don’t feel independent; we
feel insignificant, instead. We think, “Sure, Mary can take her problems to
Jesus. She’s his mother. But he doesn’t want to hear my problems. Besides, he’s
got famines and earthquakes to deal with. I don’t want to trouble him with my
messes.” If that’s your thought, however, consider this: “Because he delights in
me, he saved me.” (Ps. 18:19)
And you probably thought he saved you because
of your decency. You thought he saved you because of your good works or good
attitude or good looks. Sorry. If that were the case, your salvation would have
been lost when your language went south or your works got weak. There are many
reasons God saves you: to bring glory to himself, to appease his justice, to
demonstrate his sovereignty. But one of the sweetest reasons God saved you is
because he is fond of you. He likes having you around. He thinks you are the
best thing to come down the pike in quite awhile. “As a man rejoices over his
new wife, so your God will rejoice over you.” (Isa. 62:5)
As Max Lucado says, “If God had a
refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If he had a wallet, your photo would
be in it. He sends you flowers every spring and a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, he’ll listen. He can live anywhere in the universe,
and he chose your heart. And the Christmas gift he sent you in Bethlehem? Face
it, friend. He’s crazy about you.” Yep, that’s right. So, the last thing you
should worry about is being a nuisance to God. All you need to concentrate on
is doing what he tells you to do.
Note the sequence of events in the next three
verses about the wineless wedding: “Jesus said to the servants, ‘fill the jars
with water.’ So they filled the jars to the top. Then he said to them, ‘Now
take some out and give it to the master of the feast.’ So they took the water
to the master. When he tasted it, the water had become wine.” (John 2:7-9)
See the sequence?
First the jars were filled with water. Then
Jesus instructed the servants to take the water (not the wine) to the master. Now,
if I’m a servant, I’m thinkin’ I’m not too crazy about that idea. I mean, how
is that going to solve the problem? And what is the master going to say when I
give him a cup of water? But these servants were either naïve enough, or
trusting enough, to do what Jesus said. And so the problem was solved. Oh yeah,
and note that the water became wine after they had obeyed, not before.
What if the servants had refused? What if they’d
said, “No way”? Or, to bring the point closer to home, what if you refuse? What
if you identify the problem, take it to Jesus, and then refuse to do what he
says? That’s possible. Right? After all, God is asking you to take some pretty
gutsy steps. For instance, money is tight, but he still asks you to give.
You’ve been offended, but he still asks you to forgive. Someone else blew the
assignment, but he still asks you to be patient. You can’t see God’s face, but
he still asks you to pray.
These are not commands for the faint of
faith. But then again, he wouldn’t ask you to do it if he thought you couldn’t.
So go ahead. Next time you face a common calamity, follow Mary’s example:
Identify the problem. (You’ll half-solve it)
Present it to Jesus. (He’s happy to help)
Do what he says. (No matter how crazy)
And then get Aunt Tessie a new calendar.
Grace,
Randy